Lost
I'm lost when it comes to love. I'm in a relationship and she just doesn't do it for me. At first I thought it was me, but I know with the right woman the intimacy would be so much more exciting and powerful. I had a girl friend for about 5 years and the love life was so powerful it was like taking a drug everytime we got together. Just a long slow kiss would get us both so excited it was all we could do to keep from tearing each others clothes off. And the sessions would last for ever, each of us doing everything we could to please the other. Our bodies fit together like we were made for each other. Showers in the morning took for ever because we would spend time washing caressing each other. We shared many interests like going to the beach, listening and dancing to jazz music or just going out with friends. But I had to move and she wouldn't leave her family. To this day I still have vivid memories of our encounters. While my current GF is a sweet woman, she just hasn't produced the same reaction that my last GF did.
That being said, I'm looking for a woman in the same boat. Someone that is with a person that just isn't delivering the chills up your spine that comes when you really make that connection. We would start out discreet and slow, getting to know each other and determining if there is a mutual spark. Then we would move to the intimacy - looking for that drug they love. At that time, we would make a mutual decision on how to proceed. If we've really fallen for each other and the connection is right, we move forward. Or, if it isn't quite there but we are fulfilling a need for each other, we could keep it discreet and just help each other stay happy. Or, we decide it is not worth the risk and we fade back into our current situation without anybody else knowing anything.
I'm if that gives you an idea. I know it sounds superficial, but let's face it, if the one you're with is not appealing to the eyes, there is little chance the rest of the magic is going to fall into place. You should be attractive - again, a subjective thing. You should be available during the mid week evenings from time to time. There is the possibility of weekends, but most likely during the week to start out with. I do have a place to host, but discretion will be necessary to begin with. I'm normal and sane - you should be as well. I guess you could say I'm the boy next door looking for my girl next door. Age and race are not critical so long as you're okay with my age and race and we pass each others visual appeal requirements.
So if you find yourself missing something in your current relationship, then get in touch. Let's both help each other find something we've lost over the years.