Let's have fun m4w
We are all adults here. We have physical needs, then we have emotional and financial needs. It's not like we are going to just leave the person we are with, because we are content, or we just don't want to deal with the drama. No one is serious and it seems like everyone is a flake. So why not just be happy with everything we need. A couple contacted me a few months ago. They love each other very much and realized that they wanted to spice up their love life. They wanted to add a 3rd. It was their first time, and now, it won't be their last. I say this because it isn't wrong to need that extra something in your life. As trivial as it is, our physical needs being taken care of are written in our DNA. It's a common thing, guys look at other women and women look at other guys. There is the saying "We can look at the menu, but can't order." or "looking doesn't hurt" and that is true.
This couple and I had the time of our lives. I was ed back nearly 6 times before they moved because he was in the military. I have my own personal life and you have yours. We keep them separate. I respect your life and your respect mine, but we have our "Fun times" and that rests in the back of our minds bringing nothing but a grin of good thoughts to us. It's spontaneous, it's thrilling, and it is a turn on. The flame of passion will flicker to a low flame, there isn't much passion anymore, no excitement, but you are happy with other things in your life. There are things he won't do in bed, and sometimes more often than not, it seems you do all the work and he just lays there. The sex is the same old same old. Boring. Nothing new, nothing fresh, nothing exciting. But you are still happy being his wife, or GF, or significant other because financially and emotionally he takes care of all those things, or he is a good father. But what about you?
I am not saying leave him, I am saying that maybe it is time to take care of your other needs. There are rules though. You have to be discreet, you have to ensure nothing changes, and you have to ensure that all messages either email, text, etc are erased. There are rules to this, and if you follow them exactly, then you will have what you want when you want. This is not something I do intentionally, it isn't something I do to Spite the person I am with or that you are with, it is something that I do simply because I am asked to do it. I find myself hooking up with girls who already have a man. Now I don't know this beautiful couple want love ebony girls going in to it, but I find out later. It's best to be up front, honest, and let me know what I am dealing with.
I am 5'lbs, muscular, drug and disease free, very attractive, no bugs or anything, well groomed, and very orally skilled. I am 8", I am circumcised, nearly clean shaven down below, and I love going down on a woman. If you are real, then place your favorite Color in the subject line. I assure you I am real. It is 2:55pm on Monday February 13. I am in Waikiki.
Be real, be honest, and just be you. Don't think less of yourself, don't ever do that. Just understand, that regardless of body type, age, married, divorced, separated, attached, in a relationship etc. Know that you deserve to be taken care of intimately. I don't expect a meeting right away, even if you have questions, need advice on what you should do, or if you are thinking about it, then message me and we can talk. I will NOT in anyway TRY to make you do anything you don't want, in this sense, I will try to make things better for you and him, even if that means we never meet.
Aloha and have a great day!