Dominant Caucasian seeking submissive Asian m4w
I almost hesitate to post this ad. There are so many men who themselves dominant and who have a misconception about submissive women--especially Asian women. I've been in Dom/sub relationships for most of my adult life. My first gf was Asian and that was long before I lived in the bay area, before I ever heard of yellow fever and before I realized that there were men who thought of Asian woman as somehow different than Caucasian women or women of any other race. My attraction has more to do with looks and culture. I tend to like smaller women with smaller features. I like smart women who are generally highly educated. I like women who are less sassy and listen more than talk...who are culturally more reserved.
I'm not sure how long I'll be in the bay area. I'm pretty sure I'll be here for a while...several years, more than likely. I'm open to developing relationships with varying life expectancies. Maybe you are looking for a D/s fling. Maybe you are married or attached (to a non-Dom) and you are looking for an ongoing deeper D/s type relationship with a Dom or Master. Maybe you are inexperienced and want to explore what a D/s relationship might be like, but you don't want to give the impression that you are making any sort of commitment. I'm open to all these possibilities and more. My goal at the moment is simply to find an attractive Asian woman with a submissive personality and enjoy spending time with her in a relationship that lasts longer than one or two nights. I'll let the future take care of itself.
It's fair to wonder what sort of man I am and what sort of Dom you' be meeting. Outside of the D/s life, I'm a responsible, businessman, living alone near Berkeley in the east bay. I fiercely take care of my family, I love to relax, laugh and tease. I enjoy getting out and doing things, though spending quiet time and having intelligent conversations is also something I enjoy. I love all sorts of foods, foreign films, traveling and the arts. As a Dom I enjoy taking control both in and out of the bedroom, though if it's only in the bedroom I'm OK with that. I enjoy some physical things--rougher sex, bondage, etc, but I tend to enjoy the mental connections just as much or even more. Setting rules, enforcing compliance, giving commands and orders, etc. should be routinely expected. I love playing with toys, teasing and toying with a sub. There is always underlying respect. I always play safe and give a safeword. I understand that trust takes time, so I will patiently ease a newcomer into her role, teaching her when that is required. I can have a serious side, but you'll find that most of my interactions are fun and enjoyable for both of us.
I won't create a long list of requirements. You should be reasonably attractive, under . The rest we can explore through emails, s or by meeting in person.