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Seeking 30-something, educated m4w Over the years, Ive had a couple of very pleasant extended interactions with women Ive met via slist. As you might imagine, this hasnt come easily. Ive posted quite a few times, and most of the responses have been somehow off the.Sometimes respondents have been looking for a different kind of interaction; many times there has been a simple lack of chemistry; and, because its CL, frequently the problem has been sheer lunacy on the part of the respondent.
With that history in mind, I think I can do a better job of articulating what Im looking for and which type of woman might be the best fit for me in this endeavor. Please note: Im not offering any kind of authoritative global commentary on whats "right" or "good" here; Im merely stating what works for me an admittedly imperfect person. I respect the fact that it might not appeal to everyone, but Im probably not interested in having an extended argument about how misguided or unfair I am.
First, a little about me: I am an academic in my late 40s. Im married and have a couple of.I am generally content with this situation. Truth be told, Im not desperately unhappy. However, I find myself somewhat restless, and looking for sustained connections online. My goal in doing this isnt to engage in a torrid physical affair (more on that later) but rather to find steady electronic interaction (mainly via ) with someone who stimulates me intellectually, emotionally, and physiy. Only one or two per day probably wont be sufficient to hold my interest. And despite the length of this posting Im usually not someone who writes a short essay with each response. Im looking for short but fairly steady contact (knowing, of course, that sometimes life gets in the way and one cant always respond immediately).
My partners in this kind of interaction invariably have been er usually women in the 32-40 age range. I am not sure why this is honestly Im not obsessed with the idea of connecting with a "er woman" but I have found it to be comfortable. Also, they have been reasonably well educated and engaged in professional careers. (No, I wont be expecting to see a resume, but there will be more common ground with someone in a white collar occupation.) Im a fit, active person, and Id prefer someone who is similarly inclined (runner, yogi practitioner, etc.), or at least fits single wife want horny sex fuck partner into the "HWP" category. There are some other characteristics that I value, but they seem rather generic and subjective: sense of humor, literacy, taste in music, books, wine, etc.
Finally, regarding the possibility of meeting in person: Its not my primary goal. Furthermore, Im posting this ad outside the area where I actually reside, so it would be extremely difficult to pull off. However, with the right person and under the perfect set of circumstances, I would entertain the possibility.
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